07 December 2005

Follow up to "Give me your tired..."

Otherwise known as Overheard In the Walmart Customer Service Line...

Woman in front of me: You know, if they don't stop soon the whole store will be covered with those instruction signs.
Me: Huh?
Woman in front of me: The ones up there, telling you how to do refunds, they're already in at least one other language, what is that, Spanish?
Me: (after noticing the billboard sized YOU MUST HAVE A RECEIPT sign) Yeah, that's Spanish. I hadn't noticed till you said something, actually.
Woman in front of me: Well, there are a lot of (sic) Mexicans so I guess they have to have Spanish, but what is next? There are a lot of Indians too, so I guess they'll have Indian up there.
Me: (not responding due to the tone I heard in her voice)
Woman in front of me: I mean, this is America. We speak English here. If you are going to come here and live you should learn English so we don't have to re-do all our signs in fifteen different languages.
Me: (still not responding and trying to figure out why she decided to tell me this in the conspiratorial tone that makes me think SHE thinks I'd agree with her)
Woman in front of me: (after finally noticing that I was not responding and very obviously trying not to look mortified at her words) Well, maybe it's just me, but we do speak English in this country.

English...and Spanish...and French...and Hindi...and Cherokee...and Russian...and American Sign Language...but hey, who needs diversity...

12 comments:

Nancy E. Dunne said...

Well, that actually leads to a discussion of whether or not English is the "native" language of the United States. I hold that it is not.

Also, in response to your question, if you consider the cultural minority in which I work every day, asking someone to learn the "native" language of the US (referring to English) is asking them to give up their cultural identity, so that point is kind of a hot button for me. The native language of the Deaf is NOT English. Deaf Culture depends upon American Sign Language as a unifying point...to expect Deaf people to learn English, in the Deaf Community and to my way of thinking as a member of that community, is to expect them to be like hearing people...which does strip them of their cultural identity and heritage.

I think the problem I have with the woman's tone/message/etc in the Walmart relates to the problem I see in the United States of unbridled arrogance. I can not say that I have visited another country in which I could not understand the language (unless you count Scotland, and I couldn't get enough Gaelic so there! :P), but my friends and family that have tell me that the attitude is different. Of course if I lived in a country that spoke a language that I didn't know, I would work on learning it so that I could get along. It's the arrogance that bothers me...especially in a country where an overwhelming amount of us are the descendants of immigrants.

I think it's very progressive, inclusive, and downright cool that all of our information is put into several languages. I think it's awesome that the United States doesn't have an "official" language.

Nancy E. Dunne said...

Yeah, you knew I was gonna split hairs, didn't you? :)

Being deaf is indeed a physical disability. Rush Limbaugh is deaf. Being Deaf is a cultural identity that may or may not have anything to do with a hearing impairment. Ask my goddaughter (who is Deaf of Deaf parents) if I'm hearing or Deaf and see what she says. :) She knows I can hear, God knows, because she squeals to get my attention, but to her and to others in the Deaf community, being Deaf doesn't have anything to do with how well you hear.

As for the job thing...if everyone learned to sign, I would whistle a happy tune as I went off to find another job. I'm sure that other foreign language interpreters feel the same way.

The point of my irritation with that woman and the point of my post is, as I said, the growing arrogance in the US and inability to accept that our way is not always the right way. Language, religion, sexual orientation...national origin, culture...all of it is individual and it's my not so humble opinion that I don't have the right to tell anyone to change any of it. While the language thing is a small part, admittedly, it's just one more thing that I see as arrogant about the US. /shrug

eBeth said...

What about visitors to the US? Ones from overseas?

I totally agree with Nan on this one, I think that it's arrogant to ignore diversity. After all - isn't America the great melting pot?

∫ťǾŖŖmłệ said...

well... this is a hot button for me too... only because my job is to try and translate into written English the mostly futile verbal attempts of ESL doctors... so I really strongly agree with amy's comments.

However-- in response to your comment and splitting hairs ... (not to be a smarty pants - its a real question) which is considered your "native language" - the language in which you read the written word (and i say this because the deaf community "reads" hand signs) or is it the language in which you "speak" (again deaf community "speaks" in hand signs or the written word)??

As well as... when i lived in Quebec i spoke no English that was responded to by Quebec natives. They refused to speak to me other than in French... at first conversations were very slow and i had to speak my entire conversations by using my F/E dictionary... and I've not ever been to any other foreign country so this is my only experience to draw from... but how does that differ from what we are requesting from visitors or residents of our country?

Nancy E. Dunne said...

You're not being a smarty pants...how ya gonna learn if ya don't ask? hehe

There are many Deaf people who can read written English. I wouldn't call what I do when I talk to my Deaf friends "reading" hand signs. Like when a hearing person says "Listen to this" I would interpret that with the sign for listening at my ear moved around to my eye.

Your "native" language, to me, is the one you're born into...a child that is born deaf has a better chance of learning ASL than English because you have to hear English spoken correctly to be able to learn it correctly.

I think that my issue may be that I don't disagree with English being the unofficial-official language of the United States...but it's not the native language.

Man, I'm splitting hairs left and right today!!

Nancy E. Dunne said...

Now I could be wrong, but on the issue of Quebec...I think the attitude there is different than it would be in France or in other French speaking countries because Quebec is within Canada...and isn't there contention between the two?

Again, I never ever said that people shouldn't learn the language of a country in which they are living if it is different than their own language. I just get annoyed with a country that, whether purposefully or not, looks down on those who may not have been born here and may not speak English. That's all. :)

Nancy E. Dunne said...

First of all, Germany is a bad example because most of them speak better English than we do. ;)

I don't choose to identify myself with Deaf culture...they choose to let me into their culture because I follow the rules of their culture. Therefore, I'm just as Deaf as they are. I'm not hearing like you or liz or Dave or my family, and I'm not deaf like they are because I can hear...but I am Deaf, or as you say in ASL, my heart is Deaf.

And I don't expect anyone to communicate with me in any way other than the way that is most comfortable for them. That is the truth. English is my first language, ASL is my second...but how many times have you seen me unable to stop signing even in the presence of people that don't understand that language? I think it's the expectation that comes across as arrogance, and when I was coming into the Deaf Community as a young interpreter I remember being struck by the lack of expectation that I would be able to ever communicate effectively...they took me where I was because I tried, and never asked for more. But that's just my experience.

I think to say that anything I do or believe or way I act is arrogant is indicitive of someone who doesn't know me very well. Surely you don't really think that...

Nancy E. Dunne said...

I'm glad to see that I misunderstood your comment about me being arrogant. :)

I think I took us off the point here, and for that I apologize. The point was that forcing the learning of another language on someone could possibly be akin to forcing them to give up their cultural identity. In my adopted culture, complying with being forced to learn to read and write and speak/lipread English potentially puts you in the outs with the Deaf community. That's just how it is. To me, a Deaf person is not disabled, he or she just uses a different language to communicate.

Keep in mind too that the use of d or D in the word deaf/Deaf is deliberate. I'm not deaf. I can hear just fine. I am, however, Deaf, and very proud of my adopted culture. I guess I don't feel like I chose to learn to sign because I didn't just say "Hey, I want to be part of the Deaf Community, I'll learn ASL." I've been signing since I was a child, so it just seems natural to me.

Heh...almost native...but not quite.

Anyway...back to the point of my post, which was that the woman in Walmart was part of a growing voice in the United States that doesn't seem to want to encourage those that aren't native English speakers to learn English, they want to require it...and they get huffy when people have trouble learning it...at that attitude is my ire directed.

Gah, I'd hate to have to interpret for me...yeesh.

Nancy E. Dunne said...

Oh...and I think my posts today are indicative of the fact that I'm living in two houses, have two inpatients with a third on the way, and slept on a sofa last night...but oddly enough, I think that my ASL today was more clear than it's been in awhile...maybe my second language has become my first? LOL

eBeth said...

I think the point of Nan's post was the arrogance of some Americans and how they choose to express their views. I find that when I travel back 'home' I am very sensitive to the attitudes of the Americans around me and with my awareness of other cultures now much stronger than it was when I lived in America -- well, I really don't like what I see.

I find most Americans sadly to be less tolerant and more arrogant than other cultures and the reputation that the Country and its people have for it is really very bad.

Just my £.02.

Nan, I was going to ask if you'd moved yet - when's the big day? And anyone fancy a visit when we're in Atlanta over Christmas?

Nancy E. Dunne said...

Okay, this is going to be my last comment on this post, mainly because I'm tired of having to access the internet through my laptop till my desktop decides to recognize that it has internet access.

I can say with all certainty that I could not learn another language as easily as I learned ASL when I was 11 years old. I have had 23 years since then for my brain to stop receiving new information! :) Perhaps that is coloring my view.

I want to address a few things though, from the perspective of someone who lives them almost every day because I don't stop being an interpreter or being Deaf at 5pm or on weekends. As far as access to appropriate services, sometimes the ADA works in favor of the Deaf Community and forces those who should be providing access to stop whining about how much it costs and do what they should do. More often than not, however, larger agencies can find loopholes and ways around the ADA, so to me the ADA is a bit of a joke.

I just interpreted recently for someone to apply for federal disability benefits. "What is your disability?" the hearing person says. Before the Deaf person can answer, she adds "I don't mean deafness because that isn't considered a disability that entitles you to benefits." I was thrilled beyond belief to hear that a hearing person thought that. :) Also, the percentage of deaf people that collect disability and don't have any other medical condition is extremely small. The Deaf Community does not view itself as a disability group, and to label yourself thusly and collect disability payments is not in any way the norm. It just doesn't happen.

To not put me and what I do in with other interpreters working in foreign languages is to set back my profession 40 years to when it was just family, friends, and preachers who interpreted for Deaf people. Those of us in the profession have worked hard since then to hold ourselves on par with Spanish, French, Hindi, German, and other interpreters, and in fact have higher ethical standards than most. I happen to work for a social service agency now, but my profession is not a social service profession. We have worked hard to pull ourselves out of that stigma and be recognized as what we are, interpreters that work between two languages and cultures that don't understand each other.

And as I stated before, if one day people learn to communicate with each other to the point that interpreters aren't needed, I will happily go looking for another job. I feel like most foreign language interpreters feel the same way. To be able to communicate with someone without the need of a third person is the best way to communicate...and if it means I have to look for another job, so be it.

I'm not posting this in anger or self righteousness or anything of the sort. Go back to my blogger post that included the Green Day song. So few people get what I do and the Community that has adopted me unless they are a part of it that I don't expect people to understand. But I love what I do and the people I work with, and I get a little momma bear-ish about it from time to time.

eBeth said...

"Oh gosh. Some liberals in other countries don't like the U.S. I don't know how I'll sleep at night! :)"

You just proved my point exactly.

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